Really Got It Made?Seeing the Big Picture…

Give me 5 minutes twice a day and
I’ll make sure that you get what you really want in life.

It’s time that someone starts openly dealing with the real possibilities for Having it All.

If you could have direct access to someone with hundreds of thousands of dollars worth of self help training, including countless high priced seminars in various fields, who has read tons of all the best books, and an incredible set of hands on life skills, who is in the process of putting all that they’d learned into the creation of a life that most only dream of, in order to truly and honestly live their best life, as you work alongside them to do the same thing for your life, based on your own dreams and passions,

What might that be worth to you?

Imagine moving through whatever it is that has kept you from living your dreams.

Think about how nice it will be to have access to a solid support group of people who are rooting for your success and cheering you on to your best self.

Feel the compassion of people who have pressed on and moved toward there “True North” as they share with all of us their knowledge and heartfelt experiences that are just like ours, as we all grow through any and all obstacles to our own absolutely perfect world.

Just to prove that it isn’t all about the money, (although if you think it is that's
something we need to work with you on) we’re going to lower the bar of entry.

Please understand that this is a very limited time offer and
that it can be withdrawn at any moment.

It only takes 100 Dollars to get in, and 20 Dollars a month to stay in.

We’ll even waive the 100 dollars if you write an email and a request that spells out;

1. Why we should let you in and,
2. If you can convince us that your life mission is to help others and,
3. How you think that only "you" can do that.

We will also expect that later on, once you’ve started getting things
on track financially, that you will pay the 100 Dollars that you could
not see a way to in the beginning.

We’d like you to do this step anyway so that we can get a better
Understanding of you, and your vision, so that we can help you get there.

If it happens that you’re able to pay now (surely most of you are) and
“Your story” Qualifies, then we will waive your 100 Dollar tuition, and we
will use that 100 Dollars to fund someone elses tuition start up.

Due to the incredible amount of value that this program includes, we will also provide a
donation button so that anyone may contribute to the costs associated with creating
and managing such an effort. We will be experiencing a dramatic increase in exposure
over time due to success rate and the high percentage of referrals to this program and
we will gladly make the contributors names known publicly, if their donation is accepted.

Imagine living a life, your life, that has you jumping out of bed in the morning fired up
and excited about actually doing the things that you absolutely LOVE to do.

I believe that each of us has a God given gift, and that each of us has talents and
passions that are very likely deep buried inside of us just itching and scratching to
get out and materialize in the world.

The trouble is that life has a way of beating us up, and putting down our dreams.

It is for this reason alone that I have made it my mission to create this program.

It’s based on four little words that my Grandma said to me way back when.

As we were leaving Church one Sunday, my Grandma (Gram) took notice of a man
and as she pointed him out to me and she said, look at that man,

“He’s really got it made”.

I didn’t think much about what she meant then, but one day not long after that I said “Gram” what did you mean when you said that that man “really had it made”?

She softly said, Look at the way that he carries himself, confidently and self assured, watch the love he expresses when he’s with his family, notice the involvement that he has with the church and the community, that is clearly a man who is living his dreams, and sharing his God given gifts and talents freely with the world around him.

He’s “Really Got It Made”.

It was probably several years later, but one day while I was helping her
unpack the groceries I had ridden my bike across town and then to the store
and back to buy for her, she said to me, you have a gift for helping others and

“God has BIG plans for you”.

I have some good news and some bad news.

The good news is what my precious “Gram” said that day, has always stayed with me.

The bad news is, that I didn’t take the kind of action that would fulfill her vision of me
and my gifts and go for my BIG plans as soon as I maybe should have.

The really good news is that now I am taking that action to use my greatest gifts, and the even better news is that you get to be a part of this amazing journey.

I think that I understand a lot better now why I didn’t take the actions that would have had me living my truest dreams a lot sooner.

I could easily do what most people do and lay blame to someone else for the lack of previous action, or I could try and justify that I was only living up to the failure expectations that my Dad always made sure to tell me about as I was growing up.

I decided that none of those paths would actually get me what I want out of life and surely none of those paths would allow me to use my talents and gifts very effectively.

Over the years I went on to defy my early warnings of failure like “you’re always going to struggle unless you get a real job” (thanks Dad), and you better do something safe and established, get a job with a good company, word hard save money blah, blah, blah.

I did the same thing that I bet a lot of you have done and I struggled to comply with the wishes of the early teachers and authority figures in my life only to wake up one day, looking at my life, feeling exhausted, I was unfulfilled, and yet I still felt used up and frustrated, and I couldn’t help wondering, what the heck has happened to me?

I probably did a few more things that we’re a little closer to my idea of my perfect life than many people are willing to do. I mostly did it out of anger and defiance for tradition and authority, and not a sense of true purpose.

Just the same, I did do a lot more things my way, than most of my alleged friends and family saw as the not quite the smartest thing to do.

As a result I’ve lived a pretty good well balanced life compared to many.

The trouble I ran into was that, I kept doing things because I thought I could do them,
or because I had done them before. I didn’t ever even think to actually do what I really wanted
to do (until Bob Proctor suggested it) and as a result, my life never got as good as it’s going to get through doing this with all of you.

Here’s the story from the beginning to the now;

I started out as a painter (after gong to a technical/high school to learn Plumbing my Dads Dad was a plumber and thereby that was a respectable choice), then I worked in a restaurant bartending (my Dad did that part time for extra money), I went to back to college (and I continued bartending) after I moved away to be on my own (and got far enough away from all the verbal abuse back home), I became a fast food restaurant manager (went through the training in record time) and ended up working like a dog in order to prove myself to upper management, and luckily somehow in the midst of that I met the love of my life. I realized then, that I needed to get a little more “white collar” action (to look the part and to be deserving of such a beautiful and complete woman), so I learned how to sell life insurance with the husband of a co-worker/friend of my wife’s. I still worked evenings but because the pay was so good ( basically full time income for part time work), I was able to live a relatively normal middle class life. Whoop de freakin do right ? As the years went on I kept looking for better opportunities and I mostly found them as I grew into my “true self”. I went on to become a registered representative (with series 6 and 63 licensing) for a large brokerage house and worked primarily with US Military personnel who I have great respect and admiration for (including some very cool special forces people who will play a role in our program and it’s bigger purpose as we get further into it) as I helped them learn about money and how to manage it simply and effectively. I went on from there to realize that I had the skills necessary to become a Mortgage Broker, so I studied what needed to be studied and I got my license. I specialized in helping people (who had some credits issues) refinance their homes, save some money on their bills, and get a second chance, and when I combined that with helping them better understand how to manage their income and expenses (I even wrote a book that I gave seminars on called “Get it Made” (about getting out of debt) which will become part of the Really Got It Made program as a tool) I actually made a BIG difference in a lot of peoples lives. I also remembered that I really enjoyed helping people (flashback to helping Gram). I decided that it was time to do something more effective and so when I read a book that Wade Cook had written in the late 1990’s “The Wall Street Money Machine” I nearly lost my mind with excitement. Virtually everything that I had learned, studied, read about and had been putting into practice with my clients became obsolete overnight given this new knowledge. RUT RO RALPH !
I once again defied the traditional thinking that would plague most allegedly sane people and decided that I had to go to work for this guy so I could learn more about what he had exposed. I gathered my courage and said to my wife, Honey “I’ve gotta go to work for this guy” and she looked me lovingly in the eye and said “I know”. I love this woman !
Wade Cook was in Seattle (3065 miles away as it turns out), we lived in NC at the time (no kids yet) and we only had one car. Follow along closely now because this is a great life lesson about the power of “decision”. Once I decided to go to Seattle and work for Wade Cook it’s like the planets all aligned to help that happen in spite of my not having a clue about how I was going to do it. Wher I would live, would he hire me, how would I get through the floods as i crossed through North Dakota, etc, I only knew that I would do it. I received a call a day or so later from a neighbor and friend who was trading in her Toyota Corolla and she said ‘these guys are going to give me 1500 hundred bucks for my trade in, would you pay me that?” I immediately said YES ! Of course at the time, we we’re living like most people, paycheck to paycheck and I had no idea how I’d pay for it I just knew I would, and besides I needed a car to drive to my new job (that I envisioned) in Seattle. Three days later I was on the way to my next (seriously unplanned and not very well thought) adventure to live (I didn’t know where exactly) and work (I had no formal application or resume) with Wade Cook. In just three days of driving straight through and 3,065 miles later I arrived at my new work place. Just to fast forward a little I learned how to operate a computer (after my cubicle co-worker behind me showed me how to turn it on), I learned how to trade options with great accuracy and reward, and I looked more closely at the opportunity to become a speaker (a long held dream of mine at the time). After three months of being away from my lovely wife I returned home to North Carolina to put my new found (stock market and computer) skills to work in my own life. If I hadn’t actually been spending the money I was making, I would not have believed how successful I was at it. Which brought to the surface the next area of my life that needed some major work. “The Anger issue”. I had been holding back most of my emotions (except for anger which I was lousy at controlling) for most of my adult life. Once when I was a teenager I was working on the car in the driveway with Dad (Oh Goodie!), I heard the words that would shut me down emotionally for many years to come. You’re stupid ! Some how some where deep inside I knew (in spite of what I’d heard for most of my young life) that I was NOT stupid. So I shut down. I stayed shut down for another 25 years or so. The only way that I can explain how I managed to find, marry and secure for life such an incredible woman who does not think I’m stupid, and who has loved me and believed in me in spite of many years of unresolved and uncontrolled anger where I had not shown her the respect and love that I should have in way too many instances, is that … God is good. I tell you this to let you see me, the real me. In fact is none of us are perfect. The sooner we have the courage to face that, the sooner we can move onto dealing with it (whatever it may be for each of us) and start living our best lives. Once I realized that I wasn’t as happy as I thought I would be having had access to making a lot of money, I uncovered yet another layer of my onion (so to speak). The money itself had no soul, because it was too easy to make (I know that sounds a little nuts) and I was still angry, and as things went on my self sabotage habit had managed to rear it’s ugly head again. I started making bad decisions that were defying what I knew to be factually correct when it came to making money. So I said to myself “Self I said, When are you going to deal with this anger self sabotage crap once and for all?” And the answer quickly came back a resounding RIGHT NOW ! I was flipping through the channels (Okay, I know it’s a guy thing) a day or so later and again having made a “decision” and low and behold, I stumbled onto Oprahs show. The season had just begun and the person of the day on “change your life tv” was none other than Dr.John Gray (the mars and venus guy). This guy was so passionate about life that he grabbed my attention like no one I had ever known and before, I knew it and I recognized that I needed his help. I bought Johns book and went to work. That day I sat in bed and wept for hours as I went through the process that John Gray outlines for forgiveness in an effort to get through my issues of anger and self sabotage. When my wife came home that day from work, she paused as she entered the front hallway of our house. She said to me, what have you been up to? and I asked why? She said because you seem different somehow, I said really, like how different ? She said, I don’t know lighter somehow, it’s like your whole aura has changed. Well as it worked out the whole day was spent with me reading doing the exercises and processing the feelings of anger and doubt and frustration that had been a large (mostly unwanted) part of my life for the past 20 plus years. I was done with that (anger) chapter, moving on. Okay now we need a little more fast forward to get to where we are now. So as it turns out, I wasn’t nearly as opposed to having children (in spite of my dads insistence of them being a burden) once I had let go some of my pent up and non supportive feelings where family was concerned. It’s a good thing too, because now that my children are 5 and 7 tears old I realize that without them I would never have felt the incredible love and the joy that they have given me by becoming part of my world. I wondered when I had processed all the anger that I had for so long and moved passed it, How would I ever get those stolen years of childhood happiness back? Once again God has come through for me BIG TIME and gave all that I missed out on and even more right back to me through my wonderful children, proving that with out a single doubt, that God is truly good! So here we are in Florida (West Coast near Ocala and Crystal River) and after spending practically every day of my kids lives with them, enjoying the playing and the growing and the fun, amongst a stint in mortgage brokering, and then buying fixing and selling real estate (until it crashed and burned) and then going through a small fortune and a lot of banging my head against the wall during two plus years of trying to find the magic “get rich” solution that every one seems to pitch on the Internet, I have come to a new way (a pretty cool way actually) to make a good living. I am currently working with local businesses to help the smart and willing ones understand and better use the technological advantages of the internet to help them grow their customer base and their profits. It fits with who I am and what I love to do but as much as I enjoy it, I once again find that that the underlying structure of peoples thoughts and beliefs are largely what hold them back from doing the kinds of things that they really want to and yet can’t quite seem to do. It starts with our recurring thoughts and materializes in the world from there. Don’t get me wrong here, I’m not totally over having all the bad thoughts just yet, they still pop up and try to mess things up for me too. The difference is that I’ve learned how to handle them in a way that allows me to press on through the fears and the doubts that have held me back form my “best” me. The beauty of that for you when you join the Really Got It Made program is that you get the benefit and experience of my battling away my demons on your team so you can wage a better battle against your own. I’m in this with you. I’m not a guru, yet!
So here we go again, Time to launch “Really Got It Made”. I have realized that way back then when “Gram” told me that God had big plans for me, that she was absolutely correct and on target. I wasn’t doubting her all these years, I was doubting myself. Now I’m going to start (whether I’m ready or not) and create the life that deep down inside, I know that I’m fully capable of. The best part of this for you, is that while I become my best me, you get to become the best you by being part of this incredible process. From this day forward I will live on purpose and spend my time using my God given gifts to empower and encourage others towards their best self. I figure that there are probably many things that I don’t know that will be necessary to fulfill this promise and honor my dear sweet “Gram” in living out the BIG plans that God has for me, but I will take action and step out with the faith that all the things that will be useful to bring it upon the world full force, will appear as needed. There are a couple of qualifiers for all of this, I want to be with and around people people who KNOW that they have something BIG to do inside them that’s clawing it’s way into existence. I must limit the opportunity in order to give my full attention and be able to affect and empower others to be bigger than they’ve managed to be so far. I will be accessible to you as you grow into your personal dream. I will also place a limit on the number of people that I allow into the program, so that as we gain the success that we all seek, we don’t become victims to our own success and end up with businesses that own us, instead of the other way around. Structuring the big things that we do together will be critical to gaining not only the freedom to be ourselves, but the time to enjoy it. The deal is that, you may never get as much access to me as you’ll be able to by getting into the “Really Got Made Program” RIGHT NOW ! I’m not saying that to be full of myself (I’m not like that), I’m saying it to point out that I am very close to where many of you are right now so I can relate to you, I can empathize with what you’re going through because it’s very much like what I’m going through, and we can grow through some very similar challenges as a dedicated team and we’ll be able to do it more effectively together instead of struggling with it on our own.

Here’s what you’ll be getting when you become a member of

Really Got It Made Coaching Program;

We will give you with the tools that will help you uncover your biggest dreams.

We will have live internet based trainings once a month to guide you.

We will help you break down and figure out what works for you, and make note of what doesn’t.

We will answer your questions and concerns via ongoing email support.

We will give you access to inspirational tools tips and tricks that will help you live on purpose.

We will encourage you and be there for you as you allow yourself to dream.

We will get you where you know that you’ve always wanted to be.

We will NOT give up on anyone ever, until they decide and get what they want in life.

We will establish a forum that allows all of us to share our energy and excel.

We will have passion, fun, excitement, joy and peace as we grow together.

When we fall (and occasionally we all do) we will help pick each other up.

We will create things together that we could never do on our own.

We will prosper wildly and benefit the people of the world by doing what we love.

We will connect with people we would never have had the opportunity to meet.

We will share our individual visions and forget about chasing anyone else’s dream.

We will live the kind of lives that many will only dream of.

We will make the kind of difference that is needed in the world starting with our own lives.

We will find fulfillment in our homes, our churches, our businesses, our communities and our world.

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